Thursday 27 September 2012

The Surprising Benefits Of Trading Success Stories With Others

By Casandra Newton


When people are trading success stories that are not bragging, but instead, they are trying to help people understand the difficult and even dangerous roads that must be traversed to reach certain goals. Sometimes people believe that good thing just occur for some people. While they often do, there usually remains a considerable amount of hard work and waiting involved as well.

In the perfect settings tales such as these can help friendships to form and can be inspirational. Even when some people feel as though they have not one thing in common, they are likely to find that they have similar struggles. These can be very common ground for making a connection.

Sometimes people can learn that struggle continues one. Many people believe that once they obtain their goes life will be an easy and seamless process. Maintaining the things that you have accomplished, however, and even attaining new goals, makes achievement an ongoing process.

You may be able to help someone avoid making a bad professional or personal decision. You may tell your tale to an individual who is just getting ready to give up. When he or she comes to understand that they are not unique in their hardship and that good things might really lie ahead, they can be deterred from taking desperate and unreasonable actions.

Talking about your achievements is a great way to remind yourself of how far you have actually come. It is sometimes very easy to forget the strength, courage and endurance that you have exhibited in the past. People tend to short change themselves when their self-esteem grows low. Simply reflecting on past accomplishments could fill you with new strength and give you the hope to continue on in present and very difficult circumstances.

A lot can happen when people start sharing their life stories. They can begin to remember that the true definition of courage is not about acting free form all fears. They can relearn the fact that it is simply the commitment to continue driving on in spite of both fear and tremendous challenges.

Sometimes conversations like these can be a good ice breaker. If you are really successful you may seem larger than life to those who are around you. When you are honest about your humble beginnings, however, people will see you as being more personable and real. They will also be more likely to respect you for what you have accomplished rather than simply assuming that you have received certain breaks in life that they did not. Far too many people act as though success has just come naturally, which has led to the common and false perception that not everyone can work to achieve new heights, even when their are committed and tireless in their efforts.

While it might not seem like trading success stories can be the source of much good, this is often the perfect way to solidify a relationship or friendship. People often think that this type of sharing could be seen as bragging. When you tell the true hardships that you have endured, however, people can start to relate to you and may even be truly inspired by you.




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